Sexuality isn’t always black and white—for some, it’s a spectrum that shifts with time. Emma Flint learned this firsthand after spending 30 years trying to fit into rigid categories before discovering she was abrosexual.
Abrosexuality, a lesser-known identity, describes those whose attractions fluctuate. Emma once believed she was a lesbian, only to later find herself drawn to men, then no one at all. The inconsistency left her feeling lost. “I didn’t know who I was,” she admits. That changed when she found the term online, finally giving her experiences a name.
Unlike traditional orientations, abrosexuality isn’t tied to specific genders but to the fluidity of attraction itself. For Emma, this means loving people regardless of how her desires evolve. Still, not everyone understands. Some dismiss her identity as indecision, but she argues, “Fluidity doesn’t make me any less valid.”
The way abrosexuality presents varies widely. Some people notice daily changes, while others experience shifts over months or years. What unites them is the freedom to embrace their evolving truth. Emma’s story is a powerful reminder that self-discovery has no deadline—and that everyone deserves to feel seen.
